Last Longer During Sex
I have been trying to
find a way to make my husband last longer. Any suggestions.
Marcie
Premature ejaculation
or can be a real problem especially in young men. The good news is that as
young men mature so does the length of time they can last.
However, you did not say that your husband ejaculates
prematurely, you would just like him to last longer. The normal time for
men, from penetration to ejaculation, is 2-3 minutes. For most men (and
women) this is just not enough, especially considering it takes women about 15
minutes of intercourse to orgasm.
In the mean time though,
there are a few things that help your husband along.
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Have him masturbate
about an hour before you make love, this should help him prolong his
lovemaking. Sometimes couples are very shy about letting the other know
that they are masturbating, but this can be very fun and healthy for your
relationship. You can even help him out with a hand job or oral sex to
get that first orgasm out of the way. Some men find it tough to get
going again after ejaculating but with a little help and encouragement from
you, he should be up and running in no time.
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Have your husband train
his penis. Sound weird? Maybe, but it does work although it takes some
time to accomplish. You can either do this together or your husband can do it
while masturbating. It is called the stop and start method.
Whenever you husband gets close to ejaculation, stop, or stop and squeeze the
penis, wait for a spell and then go back to masturbating again. He can
do this a number of times each time he masturbates and he will start to feel
in control. He can also learn to control ejaculation with his muscles,
which is the same muscle he would use to stop taking a pee in mid stream.
After a while you can try this method while having intercourse, with him
pulling out and having just a little break to take the heat off and then going
some more. Be aware though, that it can take a few months to really
learn control using this method. This web has some really great info on
this method.
White Lotus East
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Foreplay, foreplay,
foreplay. While foreplay is not going to help your husband at all, it
will help you out. Prolonging foreplay will give you so much more
pleasure and your husband will get so much more out of it just knowing he is
pleasing you.
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Try some different
positions. Lay you husband on his back and you go ahead and climb on
top. In this position you will have complete control. You can go
faster or slower with your husband giving you guidance of course. When
he feels he is getting close to ejaculating you can stop and just enjoy each
other for a couple of minutes until he regains control. Practice,
practice, practice.
Some Solutions for prolonging sex from
the Cantender.com store
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Desensitizing
Creams We sell a few different creams that numbs the penis.
With these creams you husband will not feel as much of the sensations and
should help him last longer.
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Penis Extensions
Slip on penis extension are a great way to last longer and you will get to
enjoy and extra 1.5" to 3" or more. The problem for you husband is that
he will receive no sensations at all because his penis is covered completely.
Why not use a penis extension and then when you are close to being satisfied,
he can throw the penis extension to the wayside.
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