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What is Considered Premature Ejaculation?

Premature ejaculation is really tough to define.  It could mean anywhere from cumming in your pants to cumming before 30 minutes.  Now we know cumming before you even get it out is definitely premature ejaculation but how long to you have to have intercourse before it is not considered premature ejaculation?  We think that all depends on you and your lover.  There is a perception out there among men that to be a super lover you must be able to do the bump and grind for hours and hours.  In actuality, a lot of women would begin to wonder if he is ever going to quit.  There is more to making love than just the intercourse. 

In, out, in out, done

If you are real speedy and want to prolong cumming a little longer then there are a few things you can do. 

• Masturbate.  Yes, that’s right.  If you masturbate a little while before having sex you penis will be less sensitive and you will hold out longer.  Of course, if you don’t leave enough time in between you may have a tougher time getting it up again. 

• Think about other things while you are stroking.  Think about work, last night’s hockey game or world events.  Of course, if you are concentrating to hard on other things you may find your hard on going south. 

• The stop and start program.  When you feel your climax building, take a break.  You can pull out for a minute or two or just stop your stroking for a bit.  While you are stopped you can take to time to nibble on your lover’s breasts or neckor what have you.  You may find your lover thinks you are one romantic dude for taking the time out of intercourse to do a little bit more foreplay.

• Buy some desensitizing creams.  There are creams on the market that you can apply to you penis that numb it somewhat thus prolonging climax. 

• Use a condom.  Using a thicker density condom with dull the friction that comes from intercourse.

• Penis extensions.  Penis extensions come in size anywhere from a couple of inches to 8 inches.  The thick material that is used will definitely slow you down.  In fact you probably won’t feel a thing but the penis extension just might get your partner to where she wants to be.

• Age.  As you get older and get into an established relationship you will find you are more comfortable and relaxed with your sexuality.  You will find that you can last longer and sex is more enjoyable.  Of course, the more foreplay and the more stimulated you get during foreplay, the faster you will find yourself ejaculating.

• Take Care of Your Partners Needs First.  A little foreplay can go a long ways.  Take the time to get her real lathered up and to the edge of climax. You will find once you start having intercourse it won’t take her long to get past the point of no return.