One Night Stands
Why We Do It?
The question is why?! There are a few reason why we decide to have one
nights. Some reasons may being the fear of commitment. Another reason may be
for the thrill and excitement of being with a stranger. Someone may be
looking for a ego trip. Married people look for one nights when they are
unhappy in their own relationship. Whatever the reason may be, one nights
always have pros and cons.
Pros and Cons of One Night Stands
Pros -Having sex is fun and people loving having fun.
-Fantasies come true. People often fantasise about having sex with
strangers. One night stands also lets you try different things that you may
not want to try with your regular partner.
-Boosts your social status
-Your patience is not played with. No waiting by the phone.
Cons-Most one nights stands involve alcohol which can lead to
poor sex, but the good thing is that you may not remember what happened.
-The risk of catching an STDs is high and having unwanted pregnancy is a
chance you may not want to take.
If you really like the person, there is a chance of getting your heart
broken if you don’t end up seeing the person again.
-Your one night stand partner may continue on with your friends therefore
comparisons may lead to embarrassments.
-Strangers are danger, you never know what may happen
Where you can find one night stands?
They say the best place to go is at a bar or a club. If there is alcohol
there your chances are high. Alcohol lets people think differently. It lets
there guard down and lets people think that they are open and easy to talk
to. Alcohol lets people do things that they normally would not do. Another
place to check out is Single clubs and parties that deal with one nights
stands. People generally go to these place just to have one night stands. It
takes the pressure down and lets you relax seeing how there is no tension
between people.
Whether you are married or not, single or looking, or just out for a good
time. One nights stands are something people just do. Not all people do it
and its those people that we need to find for something permanent. But if
you are one of those people who love having one stands, just be careful and
always use protection. We never know what may be out there.

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