Foreplay and Sex

Foreplay is an important part of lovemaking and you should always try to integrate at least a little bit into every one of your lovemaking sessions. More than likely, when you first got together with your partner, there was a lot more foreplay than there is now. Of course, back then, you had more time. Now you both have jobs, kids and a million things that you have to squeeze into your day. What can you do? If you have to, make an appointment once a week for an extended period of lovemaking. Put aside a couple of hours on Saturday night and plan your event. That’s right, make it an event. Here are a few foreplay ideas.

Striptease Foreplay

Take your man or lady out to the strippers, only YOU be the stripper. Line up some great stripping music on the stereo, you should have at least 4 songs. For the men: nothing turns men on like high heeled boots and mini skirts or shorts and some sexy lingerie underneath. For the Ladies: Use your imagination guys, fireman, lumberjack, construction worker, cop.

Shower Foreplay

A great way to start your lovemaking is in the shower or bath. A 20 minute shower or bath together will really get the juices flowing. You may find things getting so hot in the shower that your lovemaking may not even make it back to your bed.

Foot Massages

Foot massages can be very erotic for both the man and woman especially if one or both have a slight foot fetish. Foot massages or even toe sucking can be a great way to get warmed up.

Spanking

Ever tried the bad boy or bad girl routine? This is a little different but can be very erotic. Hmmm, how to bring it up to my partner? You may want to start with paddling your partner playfully here and there, eventually telling her or him that you sort of like this kind of play. You can take it from there, starting with a little hand paddling or even moving up to a paddle or a small whip.

Cooking Oil or Lubricant

Grab the plastic sheets, you know, the ones you used with the fruit idea and grab a couple of bottles of cooking oil or some kind of lubricant. Be generous, the more you use, the more fun it is.

Turn you Bedroom into a Foreplay Fantasy

Just decorating your bedroom can sometimes really help with the foreplay. Here are some ideas.

• Set up your bedroom to look sexy. Spread around a few candles, put on some silk sheets, music or even a porn movie, fresh flowers to give you that "outdoors in the garden" scent.

• The dungeon look. Break out your handcuffs or you can even use silk scarves. Blindfolds and leather go great with this scene.

• Foreplay and Food. Turn your bedroom into a fruit stand. Break out the bowls and fill them with whatever you think would be fun with sex. Some ideas? Cherries, honey, jelly, whipped cream, strawberries and of course chocolate.

• Some things that can be added to your bedroom just for fun. Strobe lights, disco balls (do they still make them?) and black lights.

Extra Tools that can be used in Foreplay

• Sex Toys (of course)

• Lubes

• Feathers

• Whips

• Food

• Rubber Sheets

• Blindfolds or Scarves

• High Heels and Boots

• Lingerie

Taking the time for foreplay will help improve your love life drastically so break out of the routine and use your imagination.