Faking Orgasms

Why Women Fake Orgasms

Most women fake their orgasms to make the man feel better about his performance. After all isn’t the world of sex supposed to be "if you are having sex, then you have to orgasm". While this isn’t the case for most women, they do feel that they must project that they are having the ultimate orgasm every time, especially if they are in a new relationship. First time encounters and one nights stands are heaped full of faked orgasms, hey, you really like the guy and you want him to think he is the best lay in the world. Of course, if you stay in that relationship any amount of time, he may catch on to you, especially if he doesn’t get any better in bed, you may soon tire of the whole faking routine. And there’s the danger.

What do Men think of Faking an Orgasm?

Most men would not be impressed. After all, who wants to feel that their performance was flawed. On the other hand, we think that faked orgasms can add a little variety to a relationship that already has good communication. Most woman in steady relationships don’t have an orgasm every time they have intercourse so why not throw in a "faked orgasm" once in a while. Of course, your man will know you are faking but if you do it good enough it will add some excitement. Go ahead and give it a try, but just let you man know what you are up to.

How to Fake an Orgasm

Whether you are truly faking an orgasm or just having fun with your hubby, here are some tips. To fake an orgasm you must run along the same lines as you would when you really do have orgasms. You don’t want to just start moaning loud, yelling and going crazy right off the bat. You want to start slow and build your intensity as you go along. You might start with some low moaning and shallow grunting, of course keeping in time with the motions. This is where your timing has to be on because you want to orgasm before him so you have to anticipate him. Generally, that is easy, just by listening to his breathing and the intensity of his stroking.

As you get more into it, your breathing should become louder, you moaning should be longer and louder and your body should start writhing with more intensity. Now you are on you way to the finale.

You know he is getting close to orgasm, now is the time for you final performance. You are meeting him wildly with you hips, maybe digging your fingernails into his back, yell his name over and over or use the "Oh god, I’m coming" line and make you body go out of control. Keep in mind, a good faker knows how to make her vaginal muscles contract. (start practicing) Just as he is letting go, you should go all tense and then let your body relax as if that was the biggest orgasm you ever had. And lastly don’t forget to "sighhhhh"

With a huge percentage of women saying they faked an orgasm before, it can’t be that bad to fake orgasms here and there but don’t get carried away or you may find yourself hating that you ever started.